Start Guide to overcoming shyness in dating

Guide to overcoming shyness in dating

This is the dreaded “interview mode.” This happens when you don’t know what to talk about so to keep the conversation going you ask questions like: It’s not the questions themselves that kill you… and the steady stream of fact based answers that destroy any sort of “chemistry.” A conversation is supposed to fun vibing back and forth… In my video I also talk about “Taking Her Back to the Playground” which is all about avoiding the boring conversation- and turning it into a fun game.

I want to concentrate on the exact ways you’re killing your conversations… And then I’m going to show you how to overcome your shyness… This is because when you start talking to someone new, especially somebody you do not know yet, they are going to be just as cold inside their heads as you were before you psyche yourself up – making yourself ready to start that conversation. When you are talking to a woman, even if it’s your first time talking to her…

But here is a lesson that took me a LONG time to figure out. They are EXTREMELY forgiving of corny jokes, slip ups, blunders… So tonight, when you’re out- give yourself permission to be a little silly. Have you ever noticed that most conversations don’t pick up steam until about 5-10 minutes in?

They might give someone their number, but be too scared to answer his text when he contacts them.

Like with men, there's variation in how shy women can be towards the opposite sex and dating.

If he talks to her she may get totally flustered and tongue-tied, or be so anxious that she ends up babbling on when it's her turn to speak.

The nervousness inhibits their ability to take action in the direction they want to go.

For the longest time I could never understand why it took so long for me to develop rapport with women… By jumping right into rapport you create a more natural feeling conversation and give her the feeling of “knowing you forever.” I know you’ve experienced it…